每個人都有欲望  只是每個人要求的不同 追逐的不同而已

有的人想有幸福的家庭

有的人想有好的事業

有的人想住好的房子

有的人想要出名

有的人想升官

有的人想發財

有的人想自己變漂亮

有的人想健康

不同起點的人有著不同的想法 不同的欲望

所以每個人都會為了追逐自己的欲望而去努力

最終欲望達成了 會比較快樂嗎?滿足嗎?  不會

開心只是一時的 因為現在起點不同了 想要的不只是這樣而已了

想要得到更多更好的 於是又有了新的欲望 又開始追逐

最終得到了才發現 並不是理想中的那樣 其實想要的不是這些

2.理想與現實

夢里的東西最美  現實最殘酷

從前有一個漁夫 撿了一個雞蛋 他很開心回家和妻子講

他開始了他理想中的生活 他和妻子說: 如果把這個雞蛋

浮出小雞  小雞長大後再下蛋 就這樣雞生蛋 蛋生雞

很快可以買羊 羊再生羊  再買牛 牛生牛 把牛賣了買房子

就可以幸福的生活了  正換想著  只聽啪的一聲 雞蛋掉到地上摔碎了

同時也摔碎了他的夢 他從夢中回到了現實  眼前還是破舊的草房

所以夢里的東西最美 現實卻最殘酷

可人们 寧願相信穿著真實衣服的謊言  也不願接受赤裸裸的真實

這就是人

3.取與捨

有些東西沒有時覺得它太完美了 能擁有該多好 它是那麼遙不可及

是自己想要的 所以拼命去追逐著 努力著 眼里再也容不下其它

其他的東西再好也不願看一眼 甚至把它們丟棄  因為想要更好的

可最終得到了夢寐以求的東西 才發現 並不是那麼完美 它也同樣有缺點

只是以前只看到優點 它只適合看卻不實用 而實用的早已被自己丟棄

這就是人往往為了追逐一些東西而忽略了應該真正珍惜的東西

感情也是如此 人们 通常看不到眼前的 只望著遠處的  可當有一

天覺得眼前才是真正想要的時候  眼前的卻又變成遠處的

有些人有些事就是這樣

有些人追逐了一輩子  什麼都有了 可是他們還是覺得自己什麼都沒有

 並不快樂

有些人什麼都沒有 可他们卻很滿足 很快樂

4.幸福只是一種感覺                                                             

有的人一輩子都得不到幸福 因為他們不把幸福視為幸福

餓肚子的人認為吃飽是幸福           

沒有房子住的人認為有房子住是幸福

殘疾人認為健全是幸福

可什麼都有的人 卻沒有幸福的感覺

也許他們擁有很多 但未必真的幸福  快樂

1. desire

each people have the desire are only different chase different which each person requests some people want to have happiness family some people to want to have good enterprise some people to want to live in good house

 Some people want to become famous some people to want to win a promotion some people to want to get rich some people to think that change attractive some people thinks health

 The different beginning's person has different idea different desire , therefore each person can pursue own desire to go to the final desire to achieve diligently quite will have been joyful? Satisfies? happy only will not be temporary therefore not only, because the present beginning different wish the wish obtained much like this better also has the new desire to start to pursue to obtain finally had only then discovered that will not be in ideal such wants is not these actually

2. ideal and reality

In dream thing most beautiful reality most brutal formerly had a fisherman to pick an egg he to go home with the wife to speak very happily

He started in his ideal to live he and the wife said: If emerged after this egg the chicken chicken grew up, lays eggs again on such chicken lives the fruit to live chicken to be possible very quickly to buy the sheep sheep regeneration sheep to buy the small snail to live again Niu Baniu to sell has bought house to be possible the happy life to trade were thinking only listens to pa an egg to fall to ground throws down and breaks simultaneously also to throw down and break his dream he to return to the reality from the dream at present worn-out thatched roofed hut , therefore in dream thing most beautiful reality actually most brutal

But the people rather believed that puts on the real clothes' rumor not to be willing to accept naked real this is person

3.Takes with the shed

Some things not when thought that it too perfect could have this is good it is that remote may not and be wants, therefore goes all out to pursue is focusing diligently also cannot allow other other things well not to be willing again to look that again even them discards, because wants better

Might obtain the thing which longed for even in dreams only then to discover finally was not that perfect its also similar vicious is only before only saw the merit it only suitable to look actually impractical and practical already own is discarded this is the human often to pursue some things to neglect thing which should treasure truly

The sentiment is also so the people usually did not look that at present only looks at the distant place to be possible, when has the day to think is true wish time at present at present actually also turns the distant place some people of some matters is such

 Some people pursued anything to have for a lifetime, but they thought that oneself anything did not have not joyful some person of anything not to have to be possible they to be very actually satisfied very joyful

4. happiness is only one kind of feeling

 Some people cannot obtain happiness for a lifetime, because they do not regard as happily the human who happy has an empty stomach thought that eats to the full is happy does not have the human who the house lives to think that has the house to live is happy the disabled person thought perhaps perfect is the human who happy may anything have actually does not have happy feeling they to have many, but not necessarily really happy joyful